The Honeymoon is Over?: The Evelyn Lozada & Chad Ochocinco Debacle

Anyone who has read any past posts on this blog knows that I am far from an Evelyn fan or even a Ochocinco fan. But when I heard these reports a big part of me was saddened. I never want to see a woman being physically abused by the man she loves. Not only was she head butted by her husband, but her situation is being played out for the world to see. It is also unfortunate that Chad Ochocinco has subsequently lost his position as WR for the Miami Dolphins. After 30 days of marriage, no one was expecting to see these two in such a big media mess.

Now with that said, I have to admit a small part of me was mildly amused by these reports (*does evil chuckle*). Anyone who watched Basketball Wives last season can testify that Ms. Evelyn was a real B I T C H all season long. Especially when it came to her former best friend Jennifer Williams. Her beef with Jennifer stemmed from a string of radio interviews Jen did; where she made some not so flattering comments about Chad Ochocinco. Basically calling him an attention whore and suggesting that Evelyn was making a mistake getting involved with another athlete. Now, we all know these statements are both 100% true buuut they probably weren't the best things to say publicly as Evelyn's BFF. Due to these comments/radio interviews, Evelyn made it her mission to torture Jen all season long. Evelyn did everything from hitting Jen in the head with a clutch bag, attempting to put hands on her, threatening to put hands on her and airing out all of Jen's dirty laundry for 3 million viewers to hear. As well as tweeting & retweeting mean and nasty tweets made about Jennifer throughout the season. All because of a few mild comments Jennifer made about Chad on the radio, Evelyn was willing to burn all bridges with Jen and lay their 14 year friendship to the wayside. Jennifer was not the only one who suffered Evelyn's wrath on last season's Basketball Wives; cast mate Kenya Bell was also a target. In a fit of rage, Evelyn threw a large wine bottle, full force, at Kenya's head; smashing open against a wall and nearly injuring her other cast mates. 

Let's not forget how she criticized Jennifer Williams for pressing charges against the woman who slapped her. Calling her a "snitch" and a "punk". But reports show that Evelyn plans to press charges. Hmmm.. Makes me wonder if a certain executive producer (Shaunie O'Neal) will advise her to not press charges over a "mistake". 

With all this on her resume, it makes it hard to feel completely sorry for Evelyn. But as a woman I can say I hope they get through this. No I did not think they would be together forever, but I thought they would go at least a year without any BS or talks of divorce. This story is still developing, and I have a few unanswered questions. What will become of their joint reality show 'Ev&Ocho'? How does Jennifer feel about this news? I have a feeling things are going to get much worse before they get better.

Kesha Nichols Drops a Bomb!! : "Suzie Told Me Shaunie was the One Who Told Tami.."

In an exclusive interview with BallerAlert.com, Kesha Nichols reveals that both Suzie and Royce Reed both insist that they did not tell Tami about the conversation the three of them had. She gives a BOMBSHELL piece of information: 
"...truth be told Suzie says that she didn't tell Tami, and Royce says that she didn't tell her. Tami also says that Suzie or Royce didn't tell her... Suzie called me the other day saying I swear I didn't tell her, Shaunie told her."
Read more: http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/exclusive-interview-w-bbw-s-kesha-nichlos-it-was-the-most#ixzz1wrdl4gVP

Now as a viewer of this show I can't say I'm surprised that Shaunie told Tami, but I am a little shocked. I've always had my suspicions that Shaunie was sneaky and instigating situations behind the scenes, but to have actual proof gives me a wholeee other perspective on her. For Shaunie to sit there in silence while Tami berated Kesha, KNOWING you were the one who revealed the information to Tami is beyond shady. Suzie gets a bad rep for running her mouth, and knowing this Shaunie has allowed the viewers to believe Suzie was the one who ran back to Tami. If Tami was smart she would think twice about calling Shaunie a "friend". It is obvious that Tami is volatile and lacks self-control, as a "friend" you should know this and not exacerbate tense situations further. SMH at this whole cast!!

A Message to the Women of Basketball Wives

A Message to the Women of Basketball Wives

Well this has been an eventful season. Full of immaturity, drama, bullying, bullsh*t and pure MESS!

Tami
You are fake as all hell. Right before the episode aired of you bullying Kesha, you sent out this phony, rehearsed apology to try and coerce the viewers into thinking you're a genuine person. We clearly see that right after the incident happened you felt no remorse and even went as far as continuing the verbal abuse against Kesha. This whole season you have been so hype to be in the "circle" and buddy buddy with Evelyn, that you kiss her azz & co-sign every thing she does. Probably because you're worse than she will ever be.You are 42 years old. Built like a linebacker. And a classless b*tch.


Evelyn
You are probably the most insecure person in a relationship that I have ever seen. Stop looking to Jen to accept your phony relationship. You preach *loyalty* every other second, but by you putting out a former friend's business because of a minor disagreement, it showed your true colors. You are just as fake and disloyal as you claim Jen is. It is not her fault you look like a hoe on the show. She was smart enough to do her business off the cameras. Your intention was to "expose" her.. Well you exposed yourself.


Shaunie
You seem like a good person deep, deep deep down inside. But because of your friendships with the hoodrats of the show, you feel as though you cannot speak up. But what kind of friendship is that if you can't let your friend know they are in the wrong? You are respected among these women and you don't  use your voice for good. Instead you wait until after things happen and then you make catty comments. It's sad that people are even looking to you to babysit middle aged women. Hopefully the next project you do is far far away from anything Basketball Wives related. Because this show is a disgrace to women, you and anyone who has ever watched it.

Jennifer
 I'm happy to see you coming out of your shell and coming into your own person. You have a silent strength that I respect and could never emulate. However, there are times when I wish you would just go off on a heaux. Some of the things that have been said and done to you this season are inexcusable and most people would have snapped by now. I'm hoping that you distance yourself from this show and pursue bigger & better things.

Royce
The youngest cast member with the most sense! You are never afraid to tell it like it is, and that is something I respect. I love the fact that you have pursued business ventures that you are passionate about. And while yes it's obvious that you are in love with being in love, you have stayed far away from the BS this season and have been doing your own thing. Kudos!

Kesha
Girl! You seem like a sweet girl but you need to stand up for yourself more. I know when you have a belligerent quarterback hammering you it is hard to stand up, but sometimes you have to take a L and keep your dignity. You seem way too civilized and nice for this brawlic bunch, hopefully you leave this garbage show behind and pursue other ventures.

Kenya
We all know you crazy! LOL. But I think you're a good crazy. You seem to not back down and you let your voice be heard. I respect the fact that you came into this situation and did not try to kiss the "inner circle"'s azz. You came in and you weren't really given a chance. But hopefully we see more of who you really are as time goes on.

Suzie
You are probably the dumbest b*tch to ever grace television. You have absolutely no purpose, other than being a rat on this show. You are not respected by the women on the show nor are you respected by the viewers. You are fake. two-faced. And none of those faces are pretty. Hoe please just do us all a favor and leave television.. Never to return again.


This season is definitely the last Basketball Wives season I will watch.  Disgust.

"Best Friend 101: True Definition of Loyalty" Recap of Basketball Wives Episode 14

Before I say anything, I just need to say.. Suzie could you be any more of a dumb b*tch? She took that conversation with Jennifer and made it sound as bad as she could. There really was no need for her to even repeat the conversation they had, but of course because she's overly anxious to be up Evelyn's azz, she will say whatever is necessary. And as far as Tami saying Jen "asked" Nia to slap her.. Kill yourself. Shaunie & Tami have clearly been on Evelyn's side since Day 1. Jennifer knows this, so why be fake and try to be all buddy buddy with them?


The only thing I want to really touch on when it comes to this episode is the "discussion" between Jennifer and Evelyn. Evelyn talks about loyalty in almost every breath. Loyalty is not.. as soon as you and your best friend get into a disagreement, you put all her business on blast to the world. That is NOT loyalty. The things that have been said and done between these two, there is no room for a "resolution" or "squashing" beef. I do not blame Jen for not wanting to have a talk with Evelyn, especially after everything that Evelyn has said and done to her.

I try to look at all situations from all sides. So I get that Evelyn felt hurt when Jennifer said unflattering things about Ochocinco in interviews. I get that Evelyn felt hurt when Jen said she doesn't date athletes in her blog. But what I don't get is why these things became a viable cause for all this anger & aggression directed towards Jen from Evelyn. Your friend doesn't have to love everyone you date. As long as Jenn never said anything negative about Evelyn, Evelyn had no right to be as vicious with Jen as she has been.

Evelyn seems like the type of chick who flips on her friends as soon as she gets upset with them. That is NOT loyalty. I was definitely on the bandwagon of "oh, I hope Jen & Ev become friends". At this point, I see no route for a reconciliation. Too much has been said and done. Maybe if Evelyn would admit that her feelings are hurt instead of trying to act all "hard" all the damn time, healing could take place.

I still don't see what Jen's sex life or "image" has to do with their friendship. Evelyn helped perpetuate Jen's innocent image by constantly talking about the cobwebs, dust etc. on Jen's pu**y. Evelyn needs to blame herself for the fact that she is seen as the show's hoe. Between f*cking Tami's husband and sleeping with Ochocinco on the first night, she made herself look like a hoe. Jen was smart enough to do her business OFF the show. I give her brownie points for that! At this point it is clear that Jennifer is over her friendship with Evelyn. As she should be.

Where Was the Outrage For Meeka Claxton?

This new season of Basketball Wives (Season four) has been received with harsh criticism, new found disgust and utter disappointment, in the show & in some formerly beloved cast members. Former fan favorites, like Tami and Evelyn, are now arguably the most hated among viewers. Allegations of bullying, harassment and just plain old mean girl behavior have caused an uproar- leading to petitions, boycotts etc.


As fans we must ask ourselves this question: What has really changed about this show? I myself, am very guilty of criticizing this new season and deeming it the worst of all four. But really, if you really ponder, and look back, alot of the behavior is exactly the same as the last two seasons. Evelyn has always been a hot head, every season she has had beef with at least one girl on the show, and things almost always got physical. During Season 2, Tami was aggressive from the very beginning, threatening to beat Jen up over a food stamp comment and then hitting Evelyn in the face during a heated argument. Suzie has always been the instigator, Shaunie played the "innocent bystander" role, Jennifer was bougie and Royce has always been an outsider.

Meeka Claxton came along in Season 3 and immediately fans reacted negatively towards her. I and many others saw her as the "overly eager new girl". She seemed like she desperately wanted to fit in with Shaunie, Jen & Evelyn; she pursued this by instantly talking sh*t about Royce & Tami, who she perceived to be the outsiders. This tactic backfired on her when Tami & Evelyn became closer and Tami soon learned what Meeka had been saying about her to the others. This is probably the main reason why, when Tami berated her and then eventually slapped her, viewers were not outraged.

The bottom line is, No One Liked Meeka. So to see her get smacked brought joy to some people and others really didn't care. Looking back, it was definitely wrong, and Tami had no right to put hands on that girl.  

Some argue that the Kesha Nichols situation is receiving so much attention because she's a little light skinned girl. But I honestly don't think skin color is playing a role in this situation. The difference between Meeka & Kesha is that, Nobody liked Meeka. So when you see someone you don't like get smacked, it will have a minimal effect on you. And two, Kesha is visibly scared of Tami. While Tami is yelling and going off, Kesha is sitting there almost silent and on the verge of tears. The girl is obviously defenseless, so when you have someone so much bigger than her yelling in her face, stealing her purse, going through her belongings etc., it just makes you so angry. 

I have to say I see where everyone is coming from. Angry fans, critics, cast members. We all contributed to a lot of the mess by supporting and watching the show. But I also think it's never too late to take a stand and stop something that is not right from continuing.

5 Reality TV Stars Tami Roman Would NOT Try

5. Shaunie O'Neal- She is the creator of Basketball Wives and also the *ahem* head puppeteer *cough*.Tami would be putting her job in danger by messing with Ms. O'Neal. Not only is Shaunie an Executive Producer, she is also the leader of the wolf pack. By trying Shaunie, Tami would be most definitely out of the circle.

4. Jenni "J-Woww" Farley- As the toughest cookie on MTV's hit show, Jersey Shore, J Woww is a force to be reckoned with. She is known for her right hand hook, as viewers have seen demonstrated on her fellow cast members like The Situation and Sammi Sweetheart, as well as strangers, locals, chicks and dudes who got out of line at bars & nightclubs.

3. Tiffany "New York" Pollard- New York is the godmother of VH1 bad girls and made a career off being a bitch. Simply put. We first saw her on Flavor of Love, where she successfully pissed off and engaged in fights with almost all the women. She later on got her own show, self-titled I Love New York. Say what you want about New York, but she definitely always stood her ground and never backed down from any heaux. She was no one's friend and she made that clear.


 

2. Drita D' Avanzo- The Mob is in the building. Known as the undefeated fighter on VH1's Mob Wives, Drita is not a chick you want to rumble with. She seems to get pleasure from knocking  heauxs out, and the fights on Basketball Wives don't even compare to the gritty brawls shown on Mob Wives.

1. Chrissy Lampkin- Love & Hip Hop's Chrissy Mayweather Lampkin has proven that she will two piece a heaux if she gets out of line. A Harlem native, Chrissy is from the streets and unlike most of these reality show stars, she really is about that life. I'm willing to bet my bottom dollar Tami Linebacker Roman would keep it nothing but cute of she ever got around Chrissy. If she ever were to try her, this would be a fight I would pay to see.

"I Have No Words" Recap of Basketball Wives 4 Episode 13

Lawd. This episode personifies everything that is wrong with BBW this season. The immaturity is at an all time, the bullying is at an all time high and the class/dignity is at an all time low. Kesha looks like she is about 5'2, and no more than 100 lbs.. HOW could she ever go toe 2 toe with a chick built like a quarterback and that drinks Bud Light for breakfast, lunch and dinner?? Kesha should have right in that moment clarified exactly what she said.. but can you blame the girl for being weary when she has a 300 pound sumo inches away from her frail face?!

Tami was dead ass wrong for taking that girl's purse and Kesha obviously felt helpless, resulting in her contacting authorities. NOW.. How dare Tami go through this girl's purse and phone? This would have been a perfect opportunity for Shaunie to FINALLY step in and put these heauxs in their place! You're in a position where you are respected by these women, I just hate how she never says anything! And just lets sh*t rock. And the notion that Kesha has to apologize to Tami is probably the most ridiculous thing ever said on this show.

The fish "prank". Omg so immature. So stupid. I can't even deal. I hope Kenya goes crazy on these heauxs.

Now Suzie has the audacity to go tell that chick to go apologize.. FOR WHAT?? TAMI IS WRONG! Suzie is so f*cking messy. She instigated this whole situation and she is the one person that needs to get her azz whooped. Tami wants to talk about someone being 30+.. Uh heffa you are 40+ acting like a toddler! Although I'm glad Evelyn and Shaunie showed sympathy.. they should have done MORE than that. They should have told Tami she was WRONG and doing the MOST! 

Kesha should not have had to ask Tami for ANYTHING!! She took her property and she needed to return it. PERIOD. The fact that she MADE Kesha say "please" and "ask" for it back, shows the vile type of person she is.

Right before this episode, Tami issued out an apology via twitter and I actually thought it was genuine. But after watching this episode, I realize she knew what was to come and so therefore she knew she had to do some damage control. This episode was sad to say the least. Tami needs to stop trying to prove her "position" in this little circle on this show. I lost all respect for her after this episode. How are you a businesswoman and the founder of a young girls charity.. On National TV bullying a girl half your size.. U AIN'T ABOUT SHIT!

PS: This is the SECOND time Tami has brought in some racial sh*t. First time, it was Meeka was "too black" and now Kesha is not "black enough"... *Food For Thought*

Inside the Basketball Wives Season 4 Reunion!!

Sooo the Basketball Wives Reunion was filmed yesterday in Los Angeles, CA and from what I heard.. it was GOOD!! On the right is a picture of the set that one of the audience members tweeted out. 

Apparently all the ladies looked beautiful. Evelyn was rocking a thigh high skirt & Louboutins, Jennifer's hair was on point, she was in Valentino & wearing a Chanel necklace, Tami lost weight. Sources also say Evelyn must have gotten ass shots or implants because the cakes were on SWOLE!!

John Salley was the host for the 3rd year in a row, and in the beginning everyone was mean mugging. Jen apparently had bodyguards in each corner and she walked in with an entire entourage.

Now for the Rumor Report:

RUMOR: Royce and Tami get into a fight in the beginning, but were eventually able to squash beef.

RUMOR: Kenya and Evelyn get into it, & it gets HEATED!

RUMOR: Kenya lunges at Suzie

BIGGEST RUMOR: Evelyn and Jen squash beef!!

Of all the rumors the one I hope for most is that Kenya ROCKS Suzie!! She is the one person on the show I hope gets her azz beat because she deserves it for being such a kiss ass, phony and fake.

She's How Old?!: An Ode to Ageless Beauties

  

 

1. Nelly Furtado, 33
2. Alicia Silverstone, 35
3. Rose Mcgowan, 38
4. Nia Long, 41
5. Gwen Stefani, 42
6. Jennifer Lopez, 42
7. Halle Berry, 45
8. Jennifer Tilly, 53
    

"We in Tahiti Bitches" Recap of Basketball Wives, Episode 12

Here we go again!! So the episode starts off with the scene where Royce and her father arguing about her relationship issues. I can see both sides. Royce is one of those girls that is IN LOVE with being in love.. But until she recognizes that, no one can change that. You can tell her father loves her and is simply giving her good advice. Hopefully they can work out their issues and come to peace in their relationship.

Tami needs to get a refund on those anger management sessions because she is not mentally mature enough to even participate!! She is a 41 year old woman acting like she deserves a reward for exhibiting self-control.. Hellooo You ARE OLD AS HELL! You should have developed those skills at age 5. Sad.

Is it me or do those scenes with Evelyn and Ochocinco seem a tad bit staged? Like who goes to bed with a full face of make-up??--MOVING ON!

The "Fabulous" trip to Tahiti.. *rolls eyes*. Lawd where do I even start?? First of all, Tami started with Kesha from the very beginning. Tami is a little bit too excited to have finally made it into the "inner circle", and is trying to exercise her new mean girl authority over Kesha. I would expect this behavior from little girls in middle school but not an Overgrown, mother of 2! Tami is also incredibly fake when it comes to Jen.. She keeps saying she's "neutral" and "not picking sides".. Bitch! You done picked sides from the very beginning! Maybe YOU would allow someone to hit you and get away with it, but for smart people, they know hitting someone financially is a WAY worse revenge than fighting them physically. And as for Evelyn making Jen "relevant".. Tami YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THESE GIRLS!! You met them two years ago.. So what do you know about who made who relevant?? I'm 100% sure Jen would be JUST fine if she never met Evelyn.

And why was Tami mad that Kesha was asking the girls questions?? Are you mad because you were married to a mediocre basketball player and you have NOTHING TO SHOW for it? That whole issue with Kesha & Tami is so petty and unnecessary. Suzie is a two-faced, messy whore.. Why would you take anything she says as valid information. Tami knew damn well Kesha wasn't going to fight back so all that rah-rah, big talk was unimpressive at the most!! Again if Shaunie was a true friend, she would have told Tami too CHILL OUT! But we all know Shaunie waits until after blows are thrown to try and "stop it", IF she even does THAT MUCH!

In conclusion.. These chicks are immature, fake and MESSY!!

Say What?! Vh1 Producers Suing Jennifer Williams for 'Tarnishing' the Brand

Now I have seen a lot of foolishness in my days of Reality TV watching but this right here takes the cake!! So in the latest news of the Jennifer Williams/ Nia Hoodrat Crooks saga, VH1 producers are actually threatening to sue Jennifer due to "bad press" the show has been receiving ever since the episode of the altercation aired. There are so many things wrong with this picture, I don't even know where to start.

First of all, Basketball Wives has never been revered as quality television or thought of positively by the outside world. Since the beginning of it's run, people have said it portrays women of color in a negative light, it sends the wrong message to young girls, or they just feel the whole show is based on a bunch of untalented hoes making money off of who they've slept with. For those of us who were fans of the show, it served as entertainment and an inside look into the "circles" of women associated with athletes. So the supposed "bad press" they are receiving now is just a build-up-as the show gets more & more ridiculous.

Second of all, the rat Nia is not even a cast member! So by Jennifer suing her, she has every right to do so!! I have said this before; if Jen & Nia were standing face to face in a fist fight and Jen got her ass beat, I would say OK Jen you got beat up, just take the L and get her next time. But that wasn't the case in this scenario!! Jenn was sitting down, faced the opposite direction and the girl smacked her dead across her face. Slapping someone in the face is the most disrespectful thing you can do.. That is why the phrase 'Huge Slap in the Face' is used when something is seen as a gesture of disrespect. She has every right to sue and I don't understand why Vh1 cares so much.

Thirdly, Jennifer has never spoke against Vh1, Basketball Wives or the producers. She has only spoken out about Nia and Evelyn putting their hands on her. If anything Tami has been the most vocal about the producers portraying her as "the angry black woman".. Why aren't they suing her? The petitions against VH1 and Basketball Wives are all a product of the excessive violent behavior done by EVELYN!! She threw the wine bottle and glass plates at Kenya, she tried to attack Jen and her assistant smacked Jen across the face. Why aren't the producers suing her?

If I was Jen, I would leave this whole "franchise" behind and pursue bigger & better things. This show is getting old fast! We can only watch you guys get "drinks/lunch" for so long. As soon as Evelyn leaves (which will probably be soon) there will be no more wild animals acting crazy, therefore the show will decline with it. VH1 needs to look at themselves because by suing Jenn it will only further tarnish their already ugly, damaged image.

"I Can't Sue You Cause You Ain't Got SH*T!" Recap of Basketball Wives Episode 10

Slapping someone in the face is one of the most disrespectful, ugly things you could ever do. When somebody smacks you dead across your face, anything you say is FAIR GAME!! I don't know what delusions Evelyn was having but I'm 100% sure that if someone had hit Evelyn she would of been quick to say some below the belt sh*t. And the f*ck was the b*tch crying about?? LMAOOO. Your friend is a bum, accept it. Nia was talking a whole bunch of reckless, below the belt stuff to Jennifer way before she said anything about her apartment. Let's just clear something up. There is a BIG difference between LIVING with someone and STAYING OVER at someone's house. Being at somebody's house for a weekend or even a week, is NOT living with them. The girl Nia is just salty because Jen is no longer interested in being friends with her. And if I recall correctly, Evelyn called Royce a bum and judged multiple people based on their clothing more than once.

And TAMI?? Omg, how was Jenn supposed to "keep it cute" when the girl is spewing insults and saying all this bullsh*t to her. Tami knows damn well if someone had said anything even remotely close to what Nia was saying to Jen, she would have been all over their azz. I feel like Tami is definitely too caught up in trying to be Evelyn's friend to even speak up about what's right and what's wrong. I feel that Jen should have defended herself but a lawsuit is definitely the next best thing, and she has every right to sue.

If Jen and Nia were in a physical fight and Jen got her ass beat, then I  would say OK Jen, you got your ass beat, leave it alone. BUT it wasn't a fight; this chick got up and smacked her. Jen did not hit back, therefore Jen has every right to sue. You can't be a grown woman going around putting your hands on people and expect not to have repercussions for your actions. Hopefully after the courts are done with her, she will think twice before putting her hands on people. 

I was rollinggg when Jen was talking about Nia's life aspiration is to be Evelyn's assistant!! LMAOO. "GET A JOB" #BumBitch

Lastly, OMG. If this bitch Evelyn did not block me on twitter, I would have FLAMED her ass for calling Jen ugly! First of all, you're over here crying about someone calling your friend a bum but you attack people's physical appearance?? She is a hypocrite! And should be called out on it. She's the type of person that likes to surround herself with people who are going to kiss her ass and tell her that she is right about everything.

Honorable mention goes to Kesha for this comment: "But if you smack someone, shouldn't they have the right to say whatever they want to you?"<---- She was right on the ball! You can tell when she asked Evelyn's dumb ass that question, she felt extra stupid!

I have to say, it's really sad to see grown women who are 35+ acting a damn fool. trying so hard to be "down" with people. I really hope Jen sues the f*ck out of that girl!

Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin to Get Their Own Spin-Off Show

Yesss!! First off let me say that Chrissy is my absolute FAVE off of Love and Hip Hop! I loved almost everything about this girl; her wit, passion and her rawness that I knew came from a very real place. Chrissy and Jim Jones are one of my favorite TV couples and their storyline was honestly the only reason I watched Love & Hip Hop.

I was so saddened when I found out they wouldn't be returning for a third season BUT I was elated to find out that they are getting their own spin-off! I'm super excited to see them plan their wedding, my girl Mama Jones and if a reconciliation with Yandy Smith will in fact take place.

These two have been together for a long time and according to my sources, as well as my own research, these two really do have a true Harlem love story. I hope more of that story is told on this show, and I definitely wish the best for these two in the future.

But can we take a moment to talk about the future of Love & Hip Hop... Now that Chrissy and Jim Jones are gone (I hear Emily B is leaving as well) what is this show going to be about? Olivia's struggle with music and reality? Kimbella's sexcapades in Hip Hop? Somaya Reece????? I really do wish Love and Hip Hop the best of luck.. because without Chrissy.. they will need it.

The Cast of Basketball Wives Boycotting Reunion Show because of Jennifer Williams?

Alright, so in the latest heffa news.. It has been reported that "certain" members of the cast of Basketball Wives Season 4 will be boycotting the reunion if Jennifer williams is in attendance? This reason being because Jennifer is suing Nia Crooks, the girl that slapped her across the face in the last episode.

*long sigh* First of all let's just be honest. It's obvious the only cast member that would boycott the reunion based on whether Jen is there or not is the show hoe, Evelyn. And I honestly don't know what world we're living in.. But if someone slaps you dead across your face, shouldn't you have the right to sue them? Evelyn is mad at Jen for suing her broke assistant and calling her broke. But obviously if you slap somebody, they're not going to have nice things to say! These chicks are fools.

Now, if someone had smacked me personally, it would take a lot more than one security guard to stop me from bashing that person's face in.. But for some people (Jen), they don't have that strength nor that state of  mind, legal action is definitely the next best thing. Next time the bum b*tch will think twice before putting her hands on somebody.

And honestly the reunion show would do just fine without Evelyn. All she has to offer is her doomed relationship with Ochocinco and her petty fights with the other cast members. Anyone who follows me on twitter knows that I am Team Jen, and this is only because I can't stand bullies!! Especially when the bully is a grown ass woman who should know better. I respect Jen's cool attitude, she just seems so unphased by all the bullsh*t.

My New Obsession: Funky Dineva!!

OMG!! I just found my new YouTube obsession! He goes by the name Funky Dineva and he has a series of videos titled, "My Hair is Layed like_______" Basically what he does is chooses someone or a some show and GOES IN on them. He is hilarious!! LMAOOO.

I stumbled across one of his latest titled "My Hair is Layed like Nia from Basketball Wives" And he is absolutely hysterical HUNTY! LOL!

Other funny ones are "My Hair is Layed Jim Jones Mama" and "My Hair is Layed like Tami Roman".

Everyone go check him out: www.youtube.com/funkydineva

Trust me, If you are a reality show fan, he will have you in tears!

"Some Women are Not a Challenge"- My Recap of Basketball Wives Episode 9

Okay tonight's episode was pretty good!! I'm gonna start from the beginning and then go through the episode gradually. So first off, the scene with Tami and her mom was so touching. I love the fact that they're able to sit down and discuss their issues, I really hope they get through these hard issues together. Royce and her new man are soo cute!! He looks a little young but she looks so HAPPY! And that lingerie...Mhmmm ;) Yes ma'am she has stepped her game up!

Now onto the scene with Jen, Shaunie and Tami at the Think Like a Man premiere. It probably comes off that Jen is acting brand new.. but SO WHAT!! There is nothing wrong with acting brand new when it's for the BETTER!! It seems like the other BBW' want the old Jen that was basically a shadow, co-signing everything. I'm happy to see that Jen has come into her own and doing her own thing. As for Shaunie's comment about "some women are not a challenge".. That is definitely a quote befitting her friend Evelyn.. LMAOO!! We all know that tramp is loose.

And finally, the now infamous race track scene. All I have to say when it comes to Evelyn's "assistant"/ lackey.. Who the fuck let the dog out? This bitch looks CHEAP and TACKY! How dare she put her hands on Jen, knowing damn well she has nothing and if her ass gets sued, the pennies that she does have will be seized. She seems a little obsessed with Jen and is a little too thirsty to be her friend. This is not 3rd grade, if someone doesn't want to be your friend anymore.. its not the end of the world. LIFE GOES ON.  Like Jen said.. nobody wants the keys to your raggedy 2 bedroom apartment LMAOO!!

The difference between this episode and many of the other ones of this season is there was less "meeting for drinks" and more real situations & events. Hopefully the rest of the season is this way.

PS: Evelyn, "Dulce" failed because you're a terrible businesswoman. Don't blame the economy.

Nicki Minaj's Latest Ploy for Attention

I have always been a Nicki fan. From her mixtapes days, all the way up until now. But recently I've been noticing a yearning for attention with some of the stunts Miss Minaj has been pulling. She's been doing some sh*t lately, that frankly, I cannot co-sign. For example, her whole display at this year's VMAs with the whole using a revered Catholic figure as her red carpet accessory, the bizarre little red riding hood outfit, that terrible performance etc.

Her latest ploy for attention was "deleting" her twitter this past weekend, after a fan "leaked" some of her music. First of all Nicki, you are not the first nor will you be the last artist to have your music leaked. It happens everyday. I'm sure it has already happened to her in the past so, why she chose to be dramatic and delete her twitter is beyond me. Secondly, I highly doubt she would actually delete her twitter and she would only be hurting herself  by doing so because we all know twitter is a huge promotion tool for entertainers, especially artists. Her deleting her twitter reminds of when I was a little girl and I would threaten my mom by telling her I would run away. Ultimately, if I had ran, she would be fine and I would be the one on the streets cold, vulnerable and hungry. So in conclusion, I would advise her fans or her "barbs" as she calls them, to not fret too much. I have an inkling that she'll be in the Twitterverse back sooner than later.

The Rise and Fall of Basketball Wives

Basketball Wives, which was one of my favorite reality TV shows has now become a show I watch and gripe at the whole time. Season 1 began with 6 women involved with NBA players in one way or another; the show showed their struggles, friendships and occasional confrontations like when Evelyn confronted her stalker or when Jen confronted a woman who slept with her husband. As the show went on and included more members, Tami and Meeka, the show got more juicy but still maintained a level of balance between the bulls*it and real life situations the women went through.

However, this season (Season 4) has become so petty and so aimless it is almost unbearable. The newest additions to the cast are country bumpkin Kesha and loony yet likable Kenya. These new girls are honestly a snooze, and a filler as far as I am concerned. Every episode they meet for "lunch" and/ or "drinks". Kenya is bullied or picked on by one or more of the cast members. All of these chicks are 35+, most of them have children yet you wouldn't be able to tell. The most immature of them all is resident bitch, Evelyn. Evelyn is probably the craziest cast member and has the least self-control. Her latest stunt was throwing an entire wine bottle at Kenya for calling her "loose". A statement that is true, proven by her sleeping with Ochocinco on the first date, sleeping with Tami's husband, sleeping with Ochocinco's best friend Terell Owens, random sex in Vegas, f*cking for handbags etc. Her being a hoe was a known fact on the show, so I guess the truth hurts. Anyway, at this point the only thing keeping the show going is Evelyn's random outbursts of anger. The minute she leaves (which is probably soon) Basketball Wives will be wrapped. It was good while it lasted and I'm glad to see most of the girls have invested in other ventures outside the show. Because they will need it.

Eve Speaks on Nicki Minaj & Iggy Azalea

Rapper Eve, recently made some not so flattering remarks to newer femcees, Nicki Minaj and Iggy Azalea. She started off with Nicki, commenting on her beef with Lil Kim, stating "...you’re doing your thing right now and no one can take that away. Nicki — we all see it — but at the end of the day, if it wasn’t for Kim, she wouldn’t be here and that s— is real.” I find this statement odd however because not too long ago, when asked about the same topic Eve was singing a different tune. She was saying that Kim needs to stop with the disses and that it was unnecessary, basically siding with Minaj. Now it's no coincidence that Eve is also trying to make a comeback, and of course every female rapper who either enters or re-enters the game must take shots at the Harajuku barbie, ie Lil Kim. I think that Eve should mind her own. Lil Kim and Nicki have dissed each other to the point where respect is no longer a word that can be used when talking about this particular situation. In other words Eve, ruff ryde your ass out the kool aid bish!

Eve also had some choice words for newcomer Iggy Azalea. She said she "can't really f*ck with her" and that it's "not real". Now I have listened to a few Iggy Azalea songs, and I must say I was not impressed. She's kinda like a female Wiz Khalifa, they both have really cool sounding names but the material isn't exactly that great. Although I wasn't impressed with her music, I don't think its mine OR Eve's place to determine whether she's "real" or not. I don't know her from a can of paint and neither does Eve. She gets two thumbs down for this interview.

Do Celebrities Really Have Personal Lives?

Let me be the first to say, I love Rihanna's music! I think she has so much sex appeal that the fact that her voice isn't that great.. Doesn't even matter. However, this isn't about how sexy Ri Ri is, or the fact that I bump Talk that Talk almost everyday. Recently she's been shutting down interviewers left and right for asking her questions about her "personal life".

As we all know, not too long ago she was photoed leaving Ashton Kutcher's home in the wee hours of the morning. When she was asked about this incident, she got real testy and shut the reporter down.

NOW, here's what I'm confused about. Rihanna is an international superstar, Ashton Kutcher is going through a highly publicized, messy divorce. If the media catches you leaving his home early in the morning aka y'all f*cking..Uh Newsflash Rihanna.. Of course people are going to be interested!!! You would have to be a fool to think as a huge star that you could do something like that and not get asked about it. You're in the public eye, everything you do is up for grabs. duh. These celebs slay me.

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